Here's a little secret that can help take away some of your wedding stress: on the wedding day, you'll notice the things that go wrong (like someone arrives under-dressed for the formality, or the flowergirl pitches the fit you worried about) but it won't throw you. SO much great stuff will be occurring all around you, so many compliments from your guests, seeing the details of your cake for the first time, seeing your guests dancing and having fun, that the problems you fretted over won't make a dent in your happiness.

Even if your outdoor wedding gets rained out and you have to move indoors, you'll find -- as most brides and grooms do -- that the Plan B brings about very special elements that often turn out better than what you planned.

I know these insights won't take away all of your stress right now, but just be open to the idea that what will go wrong won't have any power to wreck your day.