Have you ever spent an afternoon with a complaining, miserable friend and felt completely drained after you left them? Most of us have had this experience, where you feel like you need to take a shower to get all the misery off of you.

The opposite is true of spending time with positive people. When you're with them, you feel wonderful, laughing and focusing on the positive things that positive people focus on. And when you leave them, you feel energized and light. These are the people you need to seek out and spend time with right now. Who are your most positive people? They might be an acquaintance at work whose desk you can stop by for a chat, or a cousin you haven't talked to in a while, a friend you can call, a neighbor. It doesn't have to be an all-day visit...just a few minute will recharge you.

Just make sure you don't become the complaining, miserable person who drains them! This isn't a time to talk about wedding stress or difficult people. Let the positive person talk, and soak in their great vibes. This is one of the best things you can do right now, no matter how far away from your wedding you are. And when you get within a few weeks, seek out *more* positive people, even if you're chatting with the mail carrier who's always smiling, or talking with someone behind you in line at the post office. Positive people are everywhere.