What can you use that's heirloom? Your parents' cake topper? Your sister's wedding gown? Diamonds from a grandmother's brooch? Look for items within the family that not only save you a fortune, but bring the family history into your big day. Decor can be framed family photos and gleaming silver candelabras instead of enormous floral arrangements. Table linens for the cake table and gifts table can be borrowed from Mom, instead of rented. When you bring in family Things, you can devote your budget to important elements like photography, videography, entertainment and catering. And you'll sleep well at night knowing that you're not deeply in debt, you're not over-extending, and guests will think you're brilliant for adding sentimental family touches to your big day. They'll never be able to tell how much money you saved....and don't worry about seeming cheap when you ask relatives if you can borrow their fine linens or even their outdoor strings of white lights for the wedding decor. Everyone loves to help out with the wedding plans, so there's no need to worry about making these smart requests!