Actually, Fiance Appreciation Day isn't a real holiday. There's no Hallmark card section for this one, and no one gets the day off of work. It's just a nice 'holiday' to establish between the two of you -- or as a surprise for your sweetie -- for a little bit of romance, or some laughs, a dinner out...whatever would make your partner feel most appreciated. A key cause of stress between brides and grooms is that one person feels ignored, unheard, unimportant...and then that builds up into a snarky comment or a fight over something minor. So ward off the build-up by planning an ultra-thoughtful evening, even if it's just writing a love note or suggesting some intimate time.

And if you do write a love note or propose a toast before dinner, be sure to make it all about your relationship , not all about the wedding. Grooms say they hate the tunnel-vision their brides get, only wanting to talk about the wedding plans. It's a BIG investment in your harmony as a couple when you avoid the wedding topic today and share your thoughts about how lucky you are to have met such a wonderful person, and how thrilled you are for every moment you get to spend together.