You're going to drive yourself insane if you make every decision to please others. Of course, you want your parents to be happy with the wedding details if they've paid a lot of money, and of course you want to establish a great relationship with your future in-laws...but who's really going to respect you if you're tap-dancing for everyone's approval? Instead of being terrified that someone will disapprove of the plans YOU want to set in motion for your wedding, just believe that *everyone* is going to love what you have in mind. Don't even give it a second thought, and don't make the huge mistake of asking for everyone's opinion before you book a pro or order an item. Trust yourself to make the decisions you need to make, stick to the wedding vision that you and your groom discussed at the start of the process, practice good etiquette as your guiding principle, and free yourself from the need to get everyone's approval. You'll love having so much less to worry about!